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Well, it’s that time of the year to dispense with strict medical advice and lean into the holiday. SInce I’m an old heterosexual white male I am sure I am completely out of touch. I am happy to have new holiday experiences but I am drawn to my traditional favorites. My wife and I watch the same holiday movies, listen to the same holiday music etc. We have done the Lights on the Lake a bunch of times and often take in the Syracuse Stage show that’s holiday themed. One year we saw a play at Syracuse Stage one week and listened to a lecture by the original author of the same play a week later. We never miss the Solstice Celebration whenever someone produces that. We are down for seeing live Xmas shows of all kinds and we also never miss the DeSantis Christmas Show. Previously at the Palace but now ensconced for the second year at the Landmark Theater. The show is Sunday Night December 11th. It’s live holiday music from one of the last big bands in the area with great vocalists who really bring the holidays home. . What’s not to like? Don’t get your Mom another sweater, get her the gift of a night out together. Doesn’t have to be this show…there’s lots of shows now and throughout the year. As I have mentioned on the radio show I read a study recently that looked at what really made people happy and it wasn’t money it was time together with others in conversation especially over meals. Give someone a gift certificate to a restaurant you want to support or you know they like. Better yet, go out to dinner with them. Avoid the french fries of course.

Holidays are stressful and you better believe stress kills. So why not try to reduce your stress by expanding your social network. Some of you may be spread too thin already but most of my patients as they get older have a smaller and smaller social network and that’s not a good thing. Use the holidays as an excuse to get together and go from there. Is there a Christmas gift better than seeing a smile on someone’s face?

Speaking of happiness …Do you know there is a real difference , a biochemical difference between pleasure and happiness? Pleasure involves the dopaminergic parts of the brain and happiness involves the serotonergic parts of the brain. There is a great video by Dr Robert Lustig entitled “The Hacking of the American Mind” which you can find on Youtube.

Get outside, enjoy the cold while we have it because it will warm up in 7-9 months. Go for a walk ,safely , with someone and get some time outside. It’s very good for your immune system, your hormonal system, the cardiovascular system etc. Check out the sleigh rides at Highland Forest for that unique experience or try the ice at the rink downtown. If you want to be a force for good in the Universe, leave a note in someone’s mailbox if you like their Christmas decorations.

Sorry , none of my suggestions involve an app or swiping left or right…You don’t need the internet for any of the events I suggested. .I did tell you I was a traditionalist. Merry CHristmas and don’t forget the reason for the season. Until next month…get well and stay well……

JT BARRY MD